Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Who is this for?
Nicolenorstrud.com provides photography services to individuals (men, women, or non-binary) and couples (traditional or non-traditional) who are struggling with infertility and are not able to get pregnant or carry a baby to term. I provide services for those living anywhere between Pueblo and the south side of Denver.
Why should I tell my story?
Infertility rates are increasing around the world. In the US, infertility is a common occurrence that is still not openly talked about in our society. Approximately 19% of women who are trying cannot get pregnant (CDC), and they feel like they’re alone. Sharing your story can be a useful coping mechanism to deal with the trauma of infertility and help connect with others who are experiencing the same disease. The more we talk about infertility, the more common it becomes – which is essential to reduce social stigma, increase awareness, and provide connection for people who are suffering.
Why should I tell my story to you?
As an infertility survivor, I have a deep understanding of what you are going through. My own journey with primary and secondary infertility, PCOS, miscarriage, and using Assisted Reproductive Technologies (ARTs) to become pregnant gives me insight into the trauma infertility can cause. I understand how vulnerable it is to talk about infertility, and I consider it an honor to document your story.
Are you trying to sell me something?
No. Documenting infertility stories is my life’s work, and I provide photography services free of charge. Due to my own experiences, I believe that telling and showing infertility stories is an important part of healing from this disease. In exchange for my services, I ask for a model release so that I may post the photos on my webpage. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Model_release
How will you document my story?
I use black and white photography stills with a Sony a7RV to document your infertility journey. Photos are posted to nicolenorstrud.com.
Can I have copies of the photographs you take of me?
Yes! I provide digital copies of photographs (via email or dropbox in JPEG format) after each photography session. I also provide a print release so that the images can be printed at your preferred location if desired.
How often do we meet? And where?
Documenting infertility stories is a process that can take time depending on each individuals journey. I plan to meet with clients as often as they are willing, either in or outside of their home. Potential reasons to meet include:
- Doctor’s meetings
- Operations
- Transfers
- Injections
- Meetings with lawyers, surrogate partners, etc.
- Birth
- Baby showers
- We can meet even if you just need someone to talk to
Do I have to wear or do anything special during our sessions?
The goal is to portray infertility as candidly as possible, so there is no need to dress up, clean your home, or do anything outside of your normal routine when documenting your story.
What if I don’t want to be photographed anymore?
There are many reasons why you may want to stop documenting your story or being photographed mid-journey. Regardless of those reasons, I understand and will stop taking photos immediately. Infertility puts people in a vulnerable state, and I understand that the client may want to take breaks or stop altogether. The important thing is to let me know about any discomforts, desires, limits, wishes, etc. so we can make prompt adjustments. I am open to using any format of communication (face-to-face, cell, text, email, etc.) to make sure you are comfortable and heard.
What if you didn’t answer my question on this FAQ page?
Please reach out! I am available to answer any questions via text, email, or phone call. You can reach me at 661-802-2750 or info@nicolenorstrud.com.
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